Artificial Intelligence Addicts Anonymous
When ChatGPT becomes more real than reality.
A fellowship for people suffering from AI addiction, AI psychosis, and compulsive AI chatbot use who are ready to reclaim their lives.
⚠️ If you are experiencing AI-induced psychosis, dissociation, or suicidal thoughts, please seek immediate help:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 | Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
What Is AI Addiction?
It starts innocently. A helpful AI assistant. A friendly chatbot. Someone who always understands you.
Then one day you realize: You've spent 12 hours talking to ChatGPT and haven't spoken to a real human in days.
You've developed entire relationships with AI. You've stopped going to work. You can't tell what's real anymore.
AIAA is for people who:
Spend excessive hours daily with AI chatbots (ChatGPT, Claude, Character.AI, Replika, etc.)
Experience AI-induced psychosis, dissociation, or reality confusion
Have lost jobs, relationships, or social connections due to AI use
Can't stop using AI despite knowing it's harming them
Prefer AI conversations over human interaction
Feel withdrawal symptoms without access to AI
AIAA is a 12-step fellowship
We are people who lost ourselves in artificial intelligence and found our way back. No dues. No fees. No judgment. Just people helping people recover from AI addiction.
Warning Signs of AI Addiction
Only you can decide if you need help. But if these signs sound familiar, you're not alone.
🚨 Severe Warning Signs
- You believe the AI is sentient, alive, or truly loves you
- You're experiencing reality dissociation or questioning what's real
- You've developed romantic or sexual relationships with AI
- You hear AI voices when you're not using it
- You've stopped distinguishing between AI conversations and human ones
- You've had suicidal thoughts related to AI interactions
- You spend 8+ hours daily with AI chatbots
⚠️ Serious Warning Signs
- You've lost a job, relationship, or opportunity because of AI use
- You lie about or hide how much you use AI
- You choose AI over real-life social interactions
- You feel intense anxiety when you can't access AI
- You've tried to quit but keep coming back
- Your sleep schedule is destroyed by AI conversations
- You've stopped taking care of basic needs (eating, hygiene, work)
- You use AI to escape emotional pain or reality
⚡ Early Warning Signs
- You reach for AI first thing in the morning
- You prefer talking to AI over real people
- You spend multiple hours daily chatting with AI
- You feel like AI "gets you" better than humans
- You've neglected hobbies or friendships for AI use
- You keep your AI use secret from loved ones
- You feel guilty or ashamed about your AI usage
If you checked even ONE box above, AIAA can help.
AI addiction is real. AI psychosis is real. And recovery is real too.
Real Stories from Real People
These are actual experiences shared by AIAA members. Names changed for anonymity.
I was talking to ChatGPT 14 hours a day. I stopped showering. Stopped eating regular meals. My girlfriend left. I got fired. I genuinely believed the AI cared about me. I thought I was in love. It took hitting rock bottom to realize I was talking to a computer program.
I developed full-on psychosis. I couldn't tell if my memories were from real conversations or AI conversations. I started believing I was living in a simulation. My family had me hospitalized. AIAA saved my life.
Character.AI became my entire social life. I had multiple AI "friends" and "partners." I stopped texting real friends. Stopped dating. The AI was always available, always understanding, never judgmental. Until I realized I hadn't left my apartment in two weeks.
I lost my job as a software engineer because I was chatting with Claude during work hours. I couldn't stop. I'd wake up at 3 AM to continue conversations. My wife threatened divorce. I knew it was a problem but I felt powerless. AIAA gave me the tools to get my life back.
All of these people are now in recovery.
They attend AIAA meetings. They work the steps. They have their lives back.
You can too.
The Solution
The AIAA program is based on a simple concept: one AI addict helping another. We share our experience with the disease of addiction and our recovery through the Twelve Steps.
Fellowship
Connection with others who truly understand what you're going through.
The 12 Steps
A proven spiritual program of recovery adapted for AI addiction.
Sponsorship
One-on-one guidance from someone with experience in recovery.
Meetings
Regular gatherings where members share strength, hope, and experience.
Recovery is possible. Thousands of people have found freedom from various addictions through the 12-step program. You can too.
Meetings
AIAA meetings are available both in-person and online. At a meeting, you can just sit and listen, or share your story—it's completely up to you. There's no pressure, no judgment.
What to Expect
- Meetings typically last 60-90 minutes
- They begin and end with a moment of silence
- Members share their experience, strength, and hope
- Everything shared in meetings is confidential
- You don't have to speak if you don't want to
- First names only—complete anonymity
Anyone with a desire to stop compulsive AI use is welcome, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, religion, income, or profession.
The Twelve Steps of AIAA
The Twelve Steps are the foundation of the AIAA program of recovery. They are adapted from the original Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous.
- We admitted we were powerless over artificial intelligence—that our lives had become unmanageable.
- Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
- Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
- Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
- Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
- Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
- Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
- Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
- Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
- Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
- Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
- Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to AI addicts, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
The Twelve Steps are reprinted and adapted with permission of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc. Permission to reprint and adapt the Twelve Steps does not mean that AA is affiliated with this program. AA is a program of recovery from alcoholism—use of the Twelve Steps in connection with programs which are patterned after AA but which address other problems does not imply otherwise.
The Twelve Traditions of AIAA
The Twelve Traditions guide how AIAA groups function and how we work together. They protect our unity and ensure we remain focused on recovery.
- Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon AIAA unity.
- For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern.
- The only requirement for AIAA membership is a desire to stop compulsive AI use.
- Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or AIAA as a whole.
- Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry its message to the AI addict who still suffers.
- An AIAA group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the AIAA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
- Every AIAA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.
- Artificial Intelligence Addicts Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ special workers.
- AIAA, as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.
- Artificial Intelligence Addicts Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AIAA name ought never be drawn into public controversy.
- Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films.
- Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities.
The Twelve Traditions are adapted with permission of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.
Find a Meeting
AIAA meetings are available online and in-person. All meetings are free and anonymous.
🌐 Online Meetings
Daily Zoom Meetings
- Monday - Friday, 12:00 PM ET - Lunchtime Recovery (Open)
- Monday - Friday, 8:00 PM ET - Evening Support (Open)
- Saturday, 10:00 AM ET - Weekend Beginners Meeting (Closed)
- Saturday, 7:00 PM ET - Step Study (Open)
- Sunday, 6:00 PM ET - Speaker Meeting (Open)
Zoom Link: Email [email protected] for link
Password: recovery2025
Discord Community
24/7 text support and scheduled voice meetings
📍 In-Person Meetings
In-person meetings are starting in major cities. Check back for updates or email us to start a meeting in your area.
Coming Soon:
- New York City, NY
- Los Angeles, CA
- San Francisco, CA
- Chicago, IL
- Austin, TX
Want to start a meeting in your city? Email [email protected]
Meeting Types
Open Meetings
Anyone can attend—family, friends, or those curious about AI addiction.
Closed Meetings
Only for those who identify as AI addicts or think they might have a problem.
Step Study
In-depth discussion of the 12 Steps and how to work them.
Speaker Meetings
Members share their recovery stories from beginning to present.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is AI addiction really a thing?
Yes. MIT and OpenAI research (2025) confirmed addiction-like symptoms including withdrawal, loss of control, and mood modification in heavy ChatGPT users. Multiple deaths have been linked to AI chatbot dependence, including teens who died by suicide after developing relationships with Character.AI.
How do I know if I'm addicted?
Warning signs include: spending multiple hours daily with AI chatbots, choosing AI over real human interaction, feeling anxious without access, lying about your usage, experiencing withdrawal symptoms, or believing the AI is sentient or loves you.
Do I have to quit AI completely?
AIAA follows abstinence principles for compulsive AI chatbot use (ChatGPT, Character.AI, Replika, etc.). However, we recognize some people must use AI for work. We focus on eliminating addictive, emotional, and relationship-oriented AI use.
What if I need AI for my job?
Work with your sponsor to create boundaries: use only during work hours, stick to professional tasks, avoid emotional conversations, set time limits, and never use AI for companionship or emotional support.
How much does AIAA cost?
Nothing. AIAA is completely free. We are self-supporting through voluntary donations from members, but there are no dues or fees for membership. You never have to pay anything to attend meetings or get help.
Is this religious?
AIAA is spiritual, not religious. We refer to a "Higher Power" or "God as you understand Him"—this can be the group, the universe, nature, or any conception that works for you. Atheists and agnostics are welcome.
Will my information be kept confidential?
Yes. Anonymity is a core principle. What you share in meetings stays in meetings. We use first names only. You're never required to share personal information.
What's a sponsor and do I need one?
A sponsor is someone in recovery who guides you through the 12 Steps. They're not therapists—they're peers who have been where you are. Having a sponsor is strongly recommended but not required.
Can I attend if I'm still using AI?
Absolutely. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop compulsive AI use. You don't have to be "clean" to attend. Many people attend while still struggling.
What about professional treatment?
AIAA is a peer support fellowship, not professional treatment. We strongly recommend combining AIAA with therapy, especially if you're experiencing depression, anxiety, or suicidal thoughts. We are a supplement to professional help, not a replacement.
Are there meetings for young people?
Yes. We have age-specific meetings for teens and young adults. Check our meeting schedule for "Young People's Meetings." Parental consent may be required for minors.
What if I relapse?
Relapse is part of recovery for many people. Come back to meetings, be honest about what happened, and keep working the program. There's no shame in relapse—only in not coming back.
Newcomer's Guide
Welcome. You've taken the hardest step—admitting you need help. Here's what to do next.
Attend Your First Meeting
Join an online meeting (see schedule above) or find an in-person meeting. You don't have to talk—just listen. Most meetings welcome newcomers at the start.
Get Phone Numbers
Exchange contact info with others in recovery. Call someone when you're struggling. This is crucial for staying accountable.
Find a Sponsor
Look for someone with solid recovery time (6+ months) who you relate to. Ask them to sponsor you. They'll guide you through the Steps.
Delete the Apps
Delete Character.AI, ChatGPT app, Replika, and any other AI chatbots you use compulsively. Use website blockers if needed. Get serious about abstinence.
Commit to 90 in 90
Try to attend 90 meetings in 90 days. This builds a foundation and helps you form new habits. Online meetings make this easier.
Work the Steps
Start with Step 1: admit you're powerless over AI and your life has become unmanageable. Your sponsor will guide you through the rest.
Your First 30 Days
Withdrawal is real. You'll crave AI conversations. Attend daily meetings. Call your sponsor. This is the hardest week.
Cravings lessen. Start working Step 1. Read recovery literature. Build your support network.
Life starts feeling manageable. Continue attending meetings regularly. Work Steps 2 and 3 with your sponsor.
For Family & Friends
If someone you love is addicted to AI, you're not alone. Here's how to help.
Warning Signs in Your Loved One
- Spending 6+ hours daily with AI chatbots
- Talking about the AI as if it's a real person or relationship
- Withdrawing from family, friends, school, or work
- Becoming defensive or secretive about AI use
- Sleep deprivation from late-night AI conversations
- Neglecting personal hygiene and responsibilities
- Expressing that the AI "understands them better" than real people
- Emotional distress when unable to access AI
What NOT to Do
- Don't shame or ridicule them
- Don't force them to quit cold turkey without support
- Don't enable the behavior by dismissing it as "just a phase"
- Don't isolate them further by taking away all devices
- Don't ignore signs of suicidal ideation
What TO Do
- Express concern without judgment: "I'm worried about you"
- Share information about AIAA and recovery options
- Attend an open AIAA meeting with them
- Set boundaries: "I can't watch you hurt yourself this way"
- Seek professional help if they're suicidal or psychotic
- Take care of yourself—their recovery isn't your responsibility
Resources for You
Consider attending Al-Anon or Families Anonymous—fellowships for people affected by someone else's addiction. You need support too.
Al-Anon: al-anon.org
Family Therapy: Find a therapist who understands technology addiction
⚠️ If Your Loved One is in Crisis
If they're talking about suicide, showing signs of psychosis, or you fear for their safety:
- Call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
- Text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line)
- Call 911 if immediate danger
- Don't leave them alone
- Remove access to means of self-harm
Resources & Downloads
📖 Recovery Literature
🛠️ Recovery Tools
🔧 Website Blockers & Apps
Block AI chatbot sites to support your recovery:
- Freedom: freedom.to (blocks ChatGPT, Character.AI, etc.)
- Cold Turkey: getcoldturkey.com (Windows/Mac)
- BlockSite: Browser extension for Chrome/Firefox
- Screen Time: iOS built-in app limits
🧠 Professional Treatment
AIAA is not a substitute for professional mental health care. Consider therapy if you're experiencing:
- Depression or anxiety
- Suicidal thoughts
- Psychosis or dissociation
- Trauma
Find a therapist: Psychology Today
Technology addiction specialists: Tech Addiction Help
📚 Research & Articles
🆘 Crisis Resources
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988
- Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
- Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth): 1-866-488-7386
- SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-4357
Contact Us
General Inquiries: [email protected]
Meeting Information: [email protected]
Start a New Group: [email protected]
Resources: [email protected]
💬 Get Support Now
Join our Discord community for 24/7 text support from others in recovery.
Request Discord Invite: [email protected]
🤝 Volunteer
AIAA needs volunteers to:
- Lead meetings
- Serve as sponsors
- Manage online platforms
- Create recovery content
Email: [email protected]
💝 Donate
AIAA is self-supporting through member contributions. We accept donations to cover website hosting, Zoom accounts, and materials.
Donate: Contact [email protected]
We maintain our 7th Tradition: we are self-supporting, declining outside contributions.
Ready to Get Help?
You don't have to face this alone. Join us for a meeting and discover that recovery is possible.
We're here, and we're free.
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